Manipulator with a small-ass brain
March 21st, 2010 8:19pm by admin
Running away like a 12 year old is just about as immature and selfish as these stupid emails you consider forms of upfront communication. If it’s not something you’d say to me in person with the same attitude, then it’s passive aggressive. The complete nonsensical and manic tone of them (i.e.right. back. at. my. feet. ??????????????????????????????????????? sorry dude but seriously WHY?????????) is absurd. If that’s what you consider to be a healthy and warranted way of expressing your annoyance with me, then you’re delusional and have no respect for others.
You were completely insincere with your “apology.” You can’t apologize to someone when you clearly don’t mean it. And this is obvious from the way you had to justify your actions. Just because I didn’t react all “oh whatever, it’s cool” the way you expect all your friends to respond to your inappropriate episodes, doesn’t mean I’m being overly sensitive. Get a clue. The word is frustrated. I was frustrated with you and your endless lack of consideration towards others and always turning the situation back onto yourself. I calmly asked that you please be mindful of what you say, and you flew into a flustered defensive rant. That’s why I was looking at you like a “gargon” or whatever that means. Let me tell you what you already know, but are too afraid to face. I was looking at you like you’re crazy. “Girl, no you didn’t just ‘apologize’ and then proceed to absolve yourself,” is what my BS detector told me. Don’t disassociate yourself from how you’re being with distancing words and phrases like “gargon” and “5 tigers” as though it’s an evil spirit, and you have absolutely no control or accountability over what you say and do.
Why don’t you take your own advice and step outside of yourself, then maybe you’d make some real human connections and stop objectifying people and turning them into “material.” Maybe then you’d also have the common sense to realize that not all resolutions are a manner of performing an apology and expecting an immediate response. What did you want from me? I asked you a simple question and instead you continued to push your own prerogative. You never let anyone else get a word in edgewise. I flared at you for a few minutes, and you frantically throw all your shit in a bag and escape. Dude, if you can’t fucking deal with drama, then don’t fucking create it. And what’s with this scrambling in and out for more stuff and slamming doors and shit? I wish you were capable of seeing how deranged your behavior is. Running away to your parents and calling ____ isn’t going to fix things either. Let me remind you that you’re 24.
My anger obviously made you uncomfortable, but tough; do you think you’re the only one entitled to emotion? Do you think being a friend is only about what’s convenient for you? You asked me to put myself in your shoes for a minute, and I did. And I realized I was trying to deal rationally with an irrational person. There is no point. You can’t get away with manipulating others to your will at your age. At least not in the real world. You obviously talked your way out of everything and gotten this far in life, but look at the limited bubble you keep yourself in. Get. a. LIFE. You’re the most transparent person I’ve ever met, so stop acting like a child and quit pretending that the shit you say and do is guileless and not full of contradictions. And by the way, totally withdrawing is just another form of control. sorry dude but seriously WHY????????? Oh wait, don’t answer that. I don’t fucking care. By the way, this email is supposed to be aggressive in case you still don’t know what the difference between passive aggressive and aggressive is. I’d gladly say this to your face if you weren’t such chicken shit and disappeared.